Joseph is a germaphobe. He doesn't like it when I take the boys swimming in lakes or public pools or when they climb in the tunnels at McDonalds. If a food so much as touches the counter, even if it was just washed, the food goes in the garbage.
I'm health conscious as well. But I don't get scared about a little bit of dirt. As far as I am concerned, there are bad germs and there are good germs. I make sure my kids wash their hands when they've been playing with something nasty and before meals, but I don't stress out about whether we are going to pick up a germ at the grocery store.
Most people fall into one of the categories above (excepting that gross minority who don't even bother to wash their hands after using the toilet- eww).
And then there are NICU Mommies and Daddies....
I can still remember the first time I was able to leave my hospital room to go see my tiny preemie son. I had only gotten a short glimpse of him in the operating room, and then they had whisked him away to the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit with me confined to my hospital bed. I didn't get to see him for a whole day after he was born. Family, friends and co-workers all got to visit my baby before I even really laid eyes on him. Thankfully I don't remember much of that day, which is a good thing because I must have been very sad.
Anyway, about the first time I left my room to see my baby--- I remember Joseph told me I needed to wash my hands really well. (He had been in the NICU room many times already, so he knew the protocol.) Well, I learned how to wash my hands very thoroughly in my high school medical electives, so I thought I was good. Nope, Joseph wasn't satisfied. He said I had to wash for like 30 seconds all the way up to my elbows and scrub harder. That was my initiation into the world of a NICU Mommy.
The parents of NICU babies are very concerned about germs--- and for good reason. Preemies are not as hardy as full term babies. A little bit of dirt really will hurt them, and the tiniest germ can wreak complete havoc on the system of a preemie. If you so much as scratch your nose or touch your mouth, you need to wash your hands for fear of spreading sickness to your baby.
I remember worrying so much about germs. We would make sure our visitors weren't sick, and we didn't even want healthy people to visit if they had even been around someone who was sick. The NICU is a very sterile place, and it should be that way.
Once you take your baby home, however, keeping your baby healthy becomes more tricky. Therefore, the safest place to be is at home. Austin came home from the NICU in December. We didn't take him anywhere but the doctor's office until the end of March. He was six months old before we even took him to church. I guess if it had been summer, we wouldn't have worried so much, but we were terrified that he would catch RSV and end up back in the hospital. (Thankfully, he didn't get sick at all that winter.)
Fast forward to 2010 when David was born, and we were like totally different parents. Our full term baby was more hardy and able to fight off sickness without fear of hospitalization. It's amazing what another two months in the womb will do for a kid.
All that being said, if you are going to be around a premature baby, please be conscious of germs, and don't visit if you are sick or if your kids are sick!