Sep 3, 2013

Where have I been?

What a whirlwind of a summer!

Our third son, Logan Xavier Gould, was born on June 23rd. He was my biggest baby, weighing in at 7 lb 13 oz and measuring 19 1/2 inches long. Logan is now 10 weeks old and over 13 pounds! He was born with a head of hair, which is unusual for my boys. His eyes are still blue as of now, so we'll see if they end up turning brown like Joseph and the boys.  Logan is a good sleeper at night. He goes to bed at 10 and usually sleeps until at least 5 a.m. or later.
Logan Xavier Gould- 10 weeks old

I've been homeschooling Austin for about a month now. It's a new adventure for us. We are using a variety of curriculum- Sonlight Core A for History, Sonlight Language Arts 2, Abeka Arithmetic 2 for math, A Reason for Handwriting and tons of library books for Science. Our favorite part of school so far as been the read-a-loud books, which I read out loud to the kids. I've read Homer Price, Centerburg Tales, and Mr. Popper's Penguins. Math and writing are more challenging subjects, but Austin is making noticeable progress.

Our three boys!
Austin loves helping with Logan. David usually keeps his distance from the new baby, but he's starting to play with him a little. It's been great having our own house and not worrying about disturbing the neighbors (aka- crazy cat ladies). It's been nice not working, as well. I feel like homeschooling and juggling three boys has actually made me a better housekeeper and cook. I have to be super productive in order to stay afloat!
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Jun 17, 2013

While the kids are away, Mommy will...

So, my boys have been gone for four days. What have I been doing with all my free time, you say?

Make Homeschool Plans


This Fall will be our first year homeschooling. Austin will be in second grade. I've finally finished researching and ordering curriculum and books. It's a good feeling to have everything planned out. Now, once I recover from having Logan, we can jump right into things. 

Work around the House

It's a wonderful thing to clean up a room and to see it stay clean for more than a few minutes. This is something I must have taken for granted before having kids. I've done some work in our unfinished basement, and I started sorting toys. Joseph is currently paining the boys' bedroom. I have to admit that part of my motivation for cleaning and such is to put myself into labor so I can have this baby already!

Count contractions

I've gotten Braxton Hicks contractions with all my pregnancies. This time it started around 19 weeks gestation. Up until a week ago, I was only getting them randomly throughout the day- no more than once an hour. 

This past week (37 weeks), I've been getting contractions more often, more regularly and more intensely. I've even gone into triage at the hospital twice because they were coming so quickly. Both times, I was sent home because they weren't true labor contractions. My c-section is scheduled for June 26th. I suppose I may just have to deal with these pesky contractions for another week and a half. We will see. Either way, I think Logan is going to be a good sized baby. A week ago, he measured over seven pounds on ultrasound

Have Fun 

Joseph and I went to see a movie at the theater last night. We've taken a few walks. Some friends have come over to visit me, and I've done a little solo shopping. 

By the way, the boys are having a wonderful time in Tennessee. They even went fishing with my dad and each caught their own little fish.


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Jun 13, 2013

A little peace and quiet while I wait... Less than two weeks till Baby #3 arrives

The boys are on their way to TN for a few weeks, and I'm enjoying a little holiday while I wait for Logan to arrive. I have a scheduled c-section in two weeks. I went into labor around this point in my pregnancy with David, so we'll see if I make it all the way to 39 weeks. Otherwise, I intend to enjoy my vacation while it lasts. Number one on my list is to sort the boys' toys. This is nearly impossible to do when they are home, so this is a good opportunity to do a little organizing/purging.
Full-term 37 weeks and 1 day 


Did I mention that we bought a house? Joseph has been quite the handyman fixing up our new home. The kitchen and office/nursery are completely finished. It feels good to have paint on the walls and new rugs on the floors. I think the boys' room is going to be Joseph's next project. It's a blessing to have a place of our own. Apartment living with boys was very stressful, not to mention a bit cramped. No more crazy neighbor ladies, either!

The boys have an awesome sidewalk to ride bikes in front of our house.


We are getting all geared up to homeschool Austin next year. I'm going to use A Beka for mathematics, Sonlight for history and language arts, and A Reason for Handwriting. Science is really the only area that I don't have planned, but our library has several rows of excellent science books that I think will be a good starting place.

It's crazy to think that we are going to be a family of five very soon. Believe it or not, we have figured out a way to fit the three kids in the backseat of our small Honda Civic. Seatbelt extenders (purchased from Amazon for $15 each) and small backless boosters (Harmony for David and a Cosco for Austin) are the trick, along with using the infant carrier without the snap-in base. It may be a little crowded, but it sure beats buying a new vehicle right away.

Three wide in a Honda Civic. 
In other news, I am no longer a part-time working mom. My last day at the law office was last Tuesday.  I've been a legal secretary there for five years. When we found out I was pregnant with Logan, we decided that it made the most sense for me to stay home full-time. I couldn't be more thrilled. Being home full-time is also what makes homeschooling a more reasonable option for our family.

Lots of new changes in our life this summer- new house, new baby, stopped working, and homeschooling for the first time. It's crazy how these major life events have all come at once!


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Apr 17, 2013

The significance of 29 weeks...


I can't help but remember what was going on at this point in my pregnancy with Austin. For those who are interested, I will give you a rundown of the events that led up to Austin being born at 29 weeks, 2 days gestation.

Monday 9/18/06: Routine doctor's appointment- My blood pressure was a little up, and I was having contractions pretty frequently. I was set up with an appointment for the next week. I stayed home from work that day and was terribly sick all night long.

Tuesday 9/19/06: I went in early that morning to visit the lab and asked if I could see a doctor since I was feeling very ill. At this point, my blood pressure was 150/100. The doctor surprised me with the information that I was developing preeclampsia and had two possible outcomes: #1 I would be monitored for a little while in the hospital, go home and spend the remainder of my pregnancy on bedrest, or #2 I would have to deliver this baby prematurely. As you can imagine, I was in total shock. I was dressed in office attire and planning on going to work after my short visit to the doctor's office. Instead, I was taken down to the labor and delivery unit where the real drama began.

Not only was I dealing with high blood pressure, I was also having pretty frequent contractions. This was of concern to the nurses who were hooking me up to monitors regularly throughout the day. That evening, my contractions were about 3 minutes apart, so they gave me several doses of a potent drug called terbutaline, which is designed to stop contractions. This drug had the terrible side effect of making my heart feel like it was going to race out of my chest. Little did we know that it was doing far more damage to my body than good.

Wednesday 9/20/06: My mom came up to be with me in the hospital since Joseph had to work at night. I don't remember anything about the events of that day. I think they told me I would probably go home within a few days and be on bedrest. However, that all changed in the middle of the night when it became obvious that something was not right. I had been having a strange feeling in my chest all day, but the nurses never could detect anything wrong with me. Finally, late in the night, I was feeling really out of breath and terrible, and one of the nurses checked my blood oxygen levels, which apparently were dangerously low. Thus began the scariest night of my life. I was rushed around the dark and quiet hospital on a stretcher in the middle of the night for various diagnostic testing to see what was wrong with me. They had an oxygen mask on me, and I seriously thought that there was a possibility that I and my baby were dying. God was gracious to me, though. He comforted me with the words of a hymn we had been singing at church. I believe it was A Mighty Fortress is Our God. I know I sang what I could remember of the hymn, though I'm not sure if it was audibly with my lips or quietly in my heart.

Thursday 9/21/09: I was very sick all through Wednesday night and Thursday. The doctors decided that I had developed pulmonary edema, basically fluid in the lungs. This caused my oxygen level to drop, which obviously had a negative effect on both my body and the baby's. I continued to need oxygen, and my blood pressure continued to rise, although nobody really told me how high it got. I was also on a diuretic medicine to get rid of all the extra fluid in my body and in my lungs. The pulmonary edema could have been caused by the severity of my preeclampsia or as a side effect of the medicine they had given me to stop contractions the night before.

Friday 9/22/09: I don't remember anything about this day except that Joseph's parents came into town to see me in the hospital. They brought a ton of baby shower gifts that had been given to us by a Sunday school class at their church. I remember that it was fun to open the gifts even though I was stuck in the bed. I think it was probably on this day that they told us our baby would need to be delivered soon- probably within the week, maybe a little longer. We talked with a neonatologist, who gave us the statistics for a 29 week preemie. He had a great chance of survival and only about a 10% chance of a serious problem like a brain bleed. He said that once you get to 28 weeks, the baby usually does pretty well.

Saturday 9/23/09 Austin's Birthday: I was actually feeling pretty good on this morning. I was able to get out of bed for the first time, and I remember eating a good breakfast of milk, eggs, etc. (You know, all the food you shouldn't eat before having surgery.) My labwork was looking pretty grim, however, so the doctor said they would be doing my labs every 12 hours or so and if they got bad enough, they would need to deliver the baby. Immediately after the doctor left, the nurse charged into the room in a frenzy, put me on oxygen and said that somebody needed to contact the baby's father because they were rushing me to the operating room. Austin was going into distress and needed to be delivered by emergency c-section immediately! Joseph was actually at home sleeping since it appeared that I was doing better earlier that morning. Somehow he managed to shower, get gas in the truck and race over to the hospital (through a flood at that) and make it in time for the surgery. I think it was like one of those scenes from a movie where they are scrubbing the dad up as he runs down the hallway to the delivery room. If he had been a few more minutes, my mom would have been in there for the delivery. I am so glad Joseph made it, though. Austin was delivered by c-section and rushed up to the NICU only moments after they allowed me a very quick glance at my new baby. For the next 24 hours or so, I was restricted to my bed again since there is a risk of seizures if preeclampsia gets too advanced. The only thing I can remember about the rest of that day is that God comforted me through some scripture verses I had recently memorized. I remember reciting them to my mom immediately after the surgery when they brought me back to my room, and I asked her to read scripture to me. Looking back, it is encouraging to remember God's graciousness to me.

The Next 2 1/2 Months: Austin had been born at 29 weeks gestation weighing 2 lbs, 8 ounces and was 14 inches long. He stayed in the NICU for a total of 72 days and he needed oxygen for about a month after he came home from the hospital. We spent many long days at the hospital visiting and caring for our fragile little son, but God was faithful to us during that trial. Austin is now 3 years old and has been relatively healthy for a preemie. He hasn't had any serious developmental problems and the spinal surgery that he faces next week is completely unrelated to his being premature.

Pregnancy #2 with baby David Noah: The doctors told us there was a risk of me developing preeclampsia with subsequent pregnancies but that there were measures they could take to reduce that risk in my case (low dose aspirin, frequent ultrasounds and extra folic acid supplements). I am happy to say that David was delivered full-term at 37 weeks gestation. He weighed 7 lb 1 oz and was 19 inches long.

Pregnancy #3 with baby Logan: I am 29 weeks pregnant today. There are currently no signs of preeclampsia, and I haven't had any pre-term labor issues thus far. If I can make it to the middle of June, Logan will be considered full-term.


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Mar 29, 2013

Lots of changes coming soon...

Things are moving fast around here.

Baby Stuff

I'm 26 weeks pregnant. Only about three months left to go. We still need to finalize our baby boy's name. It's funny how we had Austin and David's names chosen before we even knew if they were boys, but we just aren't in as big of a hurry to choose a name this time around.

The pregnancy is going well. I'm following the same baby aspirin regiment that I did with David, so hopefully I won't have the preeclampsia issues that I did with my first pregnancy. Speaking of that, I only have three weeks until I am at the point where I had Austin. (29 weeks gestation) Crazy, right?

At this point in my pregnancy with David (who is now just over 3 years old), we were gearing up for Austin's spinal surgery to release his tethered cord. That was a hard time!

Compared to my last two pregnancies, I guess this one is going very well indeed!

Buying a House


We are in the last stages of buying our first home. Very exciting! I'm looking forward to having a place of our own to raise our three boys. Apartment living with kids is a very stressful thing to deal with, especially as they have gotten older (and noisier). I'll post more about our new home once everything closes and we get settled.

Schooling

As much as I have been an advocate for the public school system here in Louisville, it seems that our time with JCPS may be closing for a season. For mostly academic reasons, we are likely going to pull Austin out after this year and homeschool. Surprisingly, for one who has never wanted to teach my child at home, I am actually looking forward to it. Austin needs some individual attention that the public school system is not able to provide, and I am confident that he can succeed once he receives that individualized instruction at home. (I must note that I have always worked part-time, so homeschooling hasn't really been a good option for us. After I have this baby, though, I intend to leave my secretary job and stay home permanently. This will make homeschooling a much more successful option for our family.)

I'm glad Austin was able to go to school for Kindergarten and First Grade. It has been good for him in so many ways, and we may end up sending him back to school someday. However, I am grateful that the Lord has softened my heart and given me a true desire to homeschool- not because that is what all my friends do or because it is what is expected- but because I want to do it and because it is what is best for my child.

Lots of changes

Like I said, lots of changes in our future with a new baby, a new house, job changes and schooling changes. Very busy and exciting times for the Gould family!

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