Apr 17, 2013

The significance of 29 weeks...


I can't help but remember what was going on at this point in my pregnancy with Austin. For those who are interested, I will give you a rundown of the events that led up to Austin being born at 29 weeks, 2 days gestation.

Monday 9/18/06: Routine doctor's appointment- My blood pressure was a little up, and I was having contractions pretty frequently. I was set up with an appointment for the next week. I stayed home from work that day and was terribly sick all night long.

Tuesday 9/19/06: I went in early that morning to visit the lab and asked if I could see a doctor since I was feeling very ill. At this point, my blood pressure was 150/100. The doctor surprised me with the information that I was developing preeclampsia and had two possible outcomes: #1 I would be monitored for a little while in the hospital, go home and spend the remainder of my pregnancy on bedrest, or #2 I would have to deliver this baby prematurely. As you can imagine, I was in total shock. I was dressed in office attire and planning on going to work after my short visit to the doctor's office. Instead, I was taken down to the labor and delivery unit where the real drama began.

Not only was I dealing with high blood pressure, I was also having pretty frequent contractions. This was of concern to the nurses who were hooking me up to monitors regularly throughout the day. That evening, my contractions were about 3 minutes apart, so they gave me several doses of a potent drug called terbutaline, which is designed to stop contractions. This drug had the terrible side effect of making my heart feel like it was going to race out of my chest. Little did we know that it was doing far more damage to my body than good.

Wednesday 9/20/06: My mom came up to be with me in the hospital since Joseph had to work at night. I don't remember anything about the events of that day. I think they told me I would probably go home within a few days and be on bedrest. However, that all changed in the middle of the night when it became obvious that something was not right. I had been having a strange feeling in my chest all day, but the nurses never could detect anything wrong with me. Finally, late in the night, I was feeling really out of breath and terrible, and one of the nurses checked my blood oxygen levels, which apparently were dangerously low. Thus began the scariest night of my life. I was rushed around the dark and quiet hospital on a stretcher in the middle of the night for various diagnostic testing to see what was wrong with me. They had an oxygen mask on me, and I seriously thought that there was a possibility that I and my baby were dying. God was gracious to me, though. He comforted me with the words of a hymn we had been singing at church. I believe it was A Mighty Fortress is Our God. I know I sang what I could remember of the hymn, though I'm not sure if it was audibly with my lips or quietly in my heart.

Thursday 9/21/09: I was very sick all through Wednesday night and Thursday. The doctors decided that I had developed pulmonary edema, basically fluid in the lungs. This caused my oxygen level to drop, which obviously had a negative effect on both my body and the baby's. I continued to need oxygen, and my blood pressure continued to rise, although nobody really told me how high it got. I was also on a diuretic medicine to get rid of all the extra fluid in my body and in my lungs. The pulmonary edema could have been caused by the severity of my preeclampsia or as a side effect of the medicine they had given me to stop contractions the night before.

Friday 9/22/09: I don't remember anything about this day except that Joseph's parents came into town to see me in the hospital. They brought a ton of baby shower gifts that had been given to us by a Sunday school class at their church. I remember that it was fun to open the gifts even though I was stuck in the bed. I think it was probably on this day that they told us our baby would need to be delivered soon- probably within the week, maybe a little longer. We talked with a neonatologist, who gave us the statistics for a 29 week preemie. He had a great chance of survival and only about a 10% chance of a serious problem like a brain bleed. He said that once you get to 28 weeks, the baby usually does pretty well.

Saturday 9/23/09 Austin's Birthday: I was actually feeling pretty good on this morning. I was able to get out of bed for the first time, and I remember eating a good breakfast of milk, eggs, etc. (You know, all the food you shouldn't eat before having surgery.) My labwork was looking pretty grim, however, so the doctor said they would be doing my labs every 12 hours or so and if they got bad enough, they would need to deliver the baby. Immediately after the doctor left, the nurse charged into the room in a frenzy, put me on oxygen and said that somebody needed to contact the baby's father because they were rushing me to the operating room. Austin was going into distress and needed to be delivered by emergency c-section immediately! Joseph was actually at home sleeping since it appeared that I was doing better earlier that morning. Somehow he managed to shower, get gas in the truck and race over to the hospital (through a flood at that) and make it in time for the surgery. I think it was like one of those scenes from a movie where they are scrubbing the dad up as he runs down the hallway to the delivery room. If he had been a few more minutes, my mom would have been in there for the delivery. I am so glad Joseph made it, though. Austin was delivered by c-section and rushed up to the NICU only moments after they allowed me a very quick glance at my new baby. For the next 24 hours or so, I was restricted to my bed again since there is a risk of seizures if preeclampsia gets too advanced. The only thing I can remember about the rest of that day is that God comforted me through some scripture verses I had recently memorized. I remember reciting them to my mom immediately after the surgery when they brought me back to my room, and I asked her to read scripture to me. Looking back, it is encouraging to remember God's graciousness to me.

The Next 2 1/2 Months: Austin had been born at 29 weeks gestation weighing 2 lbs, 8 ounces and was 14 inches long. He stayed in the NICU for a total of 72 days and he needed oxygen for about a month after he came home from the hospital. We spent many long days at the hospital visiting and caring for our fragile little son, but God was faithful to us during that trial. Austin is now 3 years old and has been relatively healthy for a preemie. He hasn't had any serious developmental problems and the spinal surgery that he faces next week is completely unrelated to his being premature.

Pregnancy #2 with baby David Noah: The doctors told us there was a risk of me developing preeclampsia with subsequent pregnancies but that there were measures they could take to reduce that risk in my case (low dose aspirin, frequent ultrasounds and extra folic acid supplements). I am happy to say that David was delivered full-term at 37 weeks gestation. He weighed 7 lb 1 oz and was 19 inches long.

Pregnancy #3 with baby Logan: I am 29 weeks pregnant today. There are currently no signs of preeclampsia, and I haven't had any pre-term labor issues thus far. If I can make it to the middle of June, Logan will be considered full-term.


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Mar 29, 2013

Lots of changes coming soon...

Things are moving fast around here.

Baby Stuff

I'm 26 weeks pregnant. Only about three months left to go. We still need to finalize our baby boy's name. It's funny how we had Austin and David's names chosen before we even knew if they were boys, but we just aren't in as big of a hurry to choose a name this time around.

The pregnancy is going well. I'm following the same baby aspirin regiment that I did with David, so hopefully I won't have the preeclampsia issues that I did with my first pregnancy. Speaking of that, I only have three weeks until I am at the point where I had Austin. (29 weeks gestation) Crazy, right?

At this point in my pregnancy with David (who is now just over 3 years old), we were gearing up for Austin's spinal surgery to release his tethered cord. That was a hard time!

Compared to my last two pregnancies, I guess this one is going very well indeed!

Buying a House


We are in the last stages of buying our first home. Very exciting! I'm looking forward to having a place of our own to raise our three boys. Apartment living with kids is a very stressful thing to deal with, especially as they have gotten older (and noisier). I'll post more about our new home once everything closes and we get settled.

Schooling

As much as I have been an advocate for the public school system here in Louisville, it seems that our time with JCPS may be closing for a season. For mostly academic reasons, we are likely going to pull Austin out after this year and homeschool. Surprisingly, for one who has never wanted to teach my child at home, I am actually looking forward to it. Austin needs some individual attention that the public school system is not able to provide, and I am confident that he can succeed once he receives that individualized instruction at home. (I must note that I have always worked part-time, so homeschooling hasn't really been a good option for us. After I have this baby, though, I intend to leave my secretary job and stay home permanently. This will make homeschooling a much more successful option for our family.)

I'm glad Austin was able to go to school for Kindergarten and First Grade. It has been good for him in so many ways, and we may end up sending him back to school someday. However, I am grateful that the Lord has softened my heart and given me a true desire to homeschool- not because that is what all my friends do or because it is what is expected- but because I want to do it and because it is what is best for my child.

Lots of changes

Like I said, lots of changes in our future with a new baby, a new house, job changes and schooling changes. Very busy and exciting times for the Gould family!

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Feb 10, 2013

We are having a 3rd Boy!

Well folks, we are having another boy.
19 Weeks- It's a boy!


That's right, I'm totally outnumbered. Between Joseph and three boys, you won't be seeing any barbies or pink ribbons in our house anytime soon. Joseph said something funny on the way home from the doctor's office: "That means we can buy more super hero toys." I can't even tell you how many different versions of Spiderman and the Hulk we have laying around this place, not to mention how many versions of the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. I was hoping maybe we wouldn't have to buy any more toys at all!

I got up early this morning. This hasn't happened in months. I've pretty much slept until 7:00 or later every day since November, which is unusual for me. Ever since I read a book called Shopping for Time back when Austin was a baby, my goal has been to get up at 5:00 or shortly thereafter. I really enjoy the peace and quiet that comes at 5:00 a.m. when all the boys are asleep (or still at work). This morning, I've been able to read my Bible, play on the internet, listen to some Sojourn music, have breakfast and write this blog post, and it's only 6:15 a.m. Realistically, with a new baby coming this summer, I know that these early risings are going to be few and far between for awhile (middle of the night feedings don't count!), but I'm certainly looking forward to when my body will let me get up early again on a regular basis.

David has started going to speech classes at a local public school, and he loves it. We weren't able to get a spot at Austin's school, so David has been able to take ownership of what he calls, "my school." (well, it really sounds more like "nine gool") He has made great strides with his speech since Christmas, which is very encouraging. I think he's finally hit the point where he is ready to talk, and boy does he have a lot to say!

One of David's favorite things to do these days is to draw. I find his scribbles on scraps of paper all over the house. Thankfully, he doesn't color on the wall or furniture, at least not on purpose. He uses lots of colors when he scribbles. It's very beautiful and abstract :)

Speaking of David, he has just emerged from his room, so I guess my free time is over for now. Have a good Sunday, everyone!


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Jan 14, 2013

It's 2013!

I've got a lot of random things to write about, so here I go bullet style:


  • We decided not to send David to public preschool, at least not for now. His 3rd birthday is on Thursday of this week. We celebrated early with cake and ice cream over the weekend. We love our David!
  • Austin enjoyed his 2+ weeks of winter vacation. He started back to school last week, which has spurred me on to greater productivity and nesting action around the house. 
  • I'm 15 1/2 weeks pregnant (will be 16 wks on Wed) and feeling so much more energy the past week or so. I've actually been cleaning and cooking again. It's great!
  • We had a nice Christmas here in Louisville and spent some time with our families over two separate weekends in December. It's hard being away from family around the holidays, but that's life as a UPS employee. Somebody has to deliver those last minute Christmas packages. 
  • We are officially members of Sojourn Community Church as of this past week. Yay!
That's all for now, folks. 



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Dec 19, 2012

12 Weeks on our 8th Anniversary

Joseph and I got married eight years ago today. We celebrated with Mexican food for lunch. Really, we celebrated in mid-October with our trip to Gatlinburg. The month of December is really busy at UPS, so we usually do something special at a different time to celebrate our anniversary. We always find time to go out to eat, though.

I'm also 12 weeks along in my pregnancy. I've never really understood the comparisons to fruit because I'm pretty sure my baby isn't as fat as a lemon right now, though he/she may be as long. I did come across a figure online that said my baby is about as big as a Vienna sausage. Now, that sounds more realistic.

I'm feeling pretty good these days. I just get pretty tired around mid-afternoon time. I'm not one who typically requires great amounts of caffeine, but I splurged today and got a fountain drink from the gas station. A Coke on ice never tasted so sweet.

Christmas is coming soon! We will be here in Louisville for the week and will be celebrating with family closer to New Years. I believe I'm all finished shopping- picked up the last of the stocking stuffers today. I like to get the kids juice boxes and individual snacky things in their stockings since I don't usually keep these kinds of treats around the house. This is the year of the Ninja Turtle in our house, so many of the boys' presents are along that theme. I'm excited to see Joseph on Christmas morning, too. He is a little boy at heart when it comes to retro action figure stuff.

Merry Christmas everyone!


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